Beggars Can't Be Choosers
Meaning
If you are in a desperate situation or reliant on others, you must accept what is offered rather than demanding something better.
Origin
The stark truth that those in need must accept what they are given, without complaint or demand for something better, has echoed through history. This sentiment was famously captured and formalized in the English lexicon by John Heywood, the prolific playwright and collector of proverbs, in his 1546 work, "A Dialogue conteinyng the number in effect of all the Prouerbes in the Englishe tongue." Heywood’s pioneering collection solidified many such sayings into the English language, including this one. The proverb reflects the historical reality of beggars, who, entirely dependent on the charity of others, possessed no power to dictate the terms or quality of the aid they received, highlighting a fundamental lesson in humility and the harsh realities of scarcity.
Examples
- When the restaurant was out of my first two choices, I just picked the next available dish, reminding myself that beggars can't be choosers.
- Even though the job wasn't exactly what she wanted, Sarah took it because she really needed an income, understanding that beggars can't be choosers.