Cap in hand
Meaning
To be cap in hand means to be in a position of humble supplication, typically asking for a favor or forgiveness.
Origin
The act of removing or holding one's cap or hat was a time-honored gesture of respect, deference, or humility, particularly when addressing a superior or making a request. In many cultures, going bareheaded in front of someone of higher status signified an open, submissive attitude, free of concealment. This practice, deeply embedded in European social etiquette from the medieval period, evolved into a common grace when seeking an audience or a boon. The phrase "cap in hand" emerged as a vivid shorthand for this entire demeanor of humble supplication—literally carrying one's head covering rather than wearing it, thereby embodying a deferential posture while making a plea, often for money or a favor.
Examples
- After mismanaging the budget, the department head had to go cap in hand to the CEO to request more funds.
- He approached his father cap in hand, hoping for a loan to start his new business venture.