Get off one's high horse
Meaning
To stop acting superior or arrogant and become more humble or reasonable.
Origin
In medieval society, a powerful warhorse was more than just transport; it was a towering symbol of wealth and status. Knights and nobility rode these magnificent beasts, literally elevating themselves above commoners and conveying an aura of superiority and often, a disdainful arrogance. To be 'on one's high horse' therefore meant to carry oneself with such an elevated, self-important air. The phrase demands a metaphorical descent from this lofty perch, urging someone to shed their haughty demeanor and approach others with humility and a more equal spirit, much like dismounting from a battle charger to meet eye-to-eye.
Examples
- After his team lost the championship, the star player finally had to get off his high horse and admit they were beaten fairly.
- She needs to get off her high horse and listen to her colleagues' suggestions instead of dismissing them outright.