Nose out of joint
Meaning
To be offended, annoyed, or resentful, often because one feels slighted or overlooked.
Origin
The phrase "nose out of joint" vividly depicts a literal physical misfortune: a broken or dislocated nose. Imagine the discomfort and visible crookedness of such an injury in an era before modern medical interventions—a constant, painful reminder of something being distinctly "out of alignment." This visceral image of physical distress and obvious imperfection quickly became a powerful metaphor. By the 19th century, the idiom was firmly established, capturing the precise feeling of being offended, annoyed, or deeply resentful, as if one's sense of balance and pride had been painfully knocked askew by a perceived slight, leaving one visibly put out.
Examples
- When Sarah wasn't invited to the party, her nose was definitely out of joint for a few days.
- Don't let your nose get out of joint just because someone else got the promotion; there will be other opportunities.