Suit oneself
Meaning
To do what one wants or finds most convenient, without necessarily considering the preferences or feelings of others.
Origin
The verb 'suit' has been part of the English lexicon since the 14th century, stemming from the Old French 'suite,' meaning to follow or to agree with. Initially, it described things that were appropriate or fitting, like a color that 'suited' one's complexion, or an action that 'suited' the occasion. By the 18th century, its usage had evolved to encompass personal preference and convenience, leading to the emergence of the phrase 'suit oneself.' This idiom quickly became a concise way to express the distinctly human desire to act according to one's own will or comfort, rather than conforming to external expectations, solidifying its place as an expression of personal agency.
Examples
- When it came to choosing a vacation destination, John decided to suit himself and booked a solo trip to the mountains, even though his friends had suggested the beach.
- If you don't want to join us for dinner, then suit yourself; we'll still have a great time without you.